Ok I started stripping my monitor using sydneybirds guide here http://www.lumenlab.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=545&st=0

The problem is that mine looks a little different insid. see pics
This the back of mine
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notice the difference in mine...
and this one at this address. I tried to post a pic but was unable to. Any way in the top right corner you'll see the gold comb looking thing that after removed, shows the cable to disconnect, well mine doesn't have the gold comb thing. and I see no where to get to the cable. I post a pic of what I'm talking about after this post.

http://www.lumenlab.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=545&st=0

Ok heres what I see when I removed the little silver tape over the back right corner where they said the ribon would be. anyone know what this is?????

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Duck,

your image is too low a resolution for me to see ...

Of course...

the picture is not very good. But don't bother with it. Just remove every thing. Every cable can be unplugged. So remove it and after you will be able to see that is the ribbon of the ctrl.