There are a few basic components to your computer.
Motherboard
CPU (Processor)
RAM
Hard drive
Video Card
Sound Card
Network Card
Opticals
Case
Powersupply
If you have all of the above, you pretty much have a full computer. Lucky for us, most motherboards now come with an integrated sound and network cards. While most gamers cringe at the sound of "integrated", do not be afraid. This isn't the video realm that we are talking. Most modern motherboards come with very very good sound and network cards. So, lets start with those. I have limited myself to AMD64 systems. I have built 200+ rigs from PIII 733 machines up to a 256 node beowolfe cluster based on AMD64s and in my mind for the gamer or value person, AMD64 gives you the best results at a good price. (I'll post about Intel vs AMD later.)
Motherboards
Just about every company makes a high end AMD64 motherboard. They are all extremely high quality and are even becoming aesthetically pleasing. As of this moment, these are some of the choices you have.
ASUS A8N
Asus A8V Deluxe
BFG BFGRNF4U
ECS KN1
ABIT Fatal1ty AN8
All of these are high end AMD 64 Boards and will serve you well, they are all about $100 some a little more.
CPUs
AMD64 chips can be confusing, even for someone like me that basically lives around them (while I write this, I actually have 8 AMD64 chips in 6 different machines in the same room as me) But here are some basic pricing as of this writing (courtesy of newegg):
AMD64 Venice 3000+ ($146)
AMD64 Venice 3200+ ($190)
AMD64 Venice 3500+ ($265)
AMD64 Venice 3800+ ($339)
AMD64 San Diego 4000+ ($474)
AMD64 San Diego FX55 ($819)
AMD64 San Diego FX57 ($1,100)
These are the main line flagship gaming CPUs. Even the lowest end CPU, the 3000+ will run high end games at medium/high settings. They are great CPUs and all of them (these are all retail prices) come with heat sinks and fans.
RAM
Some might yell at me for this, but in my mind, "good ram" is seriously over rated. Yes, it is true that quality does matter, but not to change prices by a factor of 2. Generic sticks of RAM work fine with normal systems, although I think that it would be not only stupid, but pointless to build an FX55 system and stick in generic ram. That having been said. DDR on AMD64 systems should be bought in packs of two, ie two sticks at a time to utilize the dual channel memory. Technical mumbo jumbo aside, always by your ram in two sticks, unless you see yourself upgrading very very soon. Its faster and hey if one stick fails, you will still have a working computer. That having been said. Your best bet is to pick up two sticks of 512mb DDR400 PC3200 ram. It is flooding the market and is dirt cheap. It isn't THE fastest, but it is more than adequet for gaming standards now. I've seen my favorite brand, Crucial or even Corsair Ram, two sticks of 512mb go for $90 on newegg! Thats a gig of ram for $90 total.
Hard drives
This is another area that we consumers are lucky in. The market is flooded with good, brand name, cheap hard drives. Just a quick search at www.slickdeals.net or www.bensbargains.net will show you the number of cheap, large hard drives that are on the market now. I think the last one I saw was a 160gb drive for $40. While size does matter, for most people, the difference between a 160gb and a 250gb or 400gb drive is very little. Very very few people have music collections or movie collections that big (although, if one looks at my storage server, they will see that I have over a terrabyte of storage space and it is 70% filled
Video Cards (oh boy... here we go...)
This is the absolute hardest section to write, because there isn't a simple answer like most of the other sections. It would be hard to find a computer enthusiast who disagreed on major issues with the other sections, but when it comes to video cards, there will always be a huge debate, and that is a good thing. Why? Why is it good that it isn't simple? Because video cards are the single biggest variable with high end gaming. This means that companies are going to always fight to give you the best card possible at the lowest price to beat out the rest of an extremely competative market. Now, this is MY take. I stand by it as a basic outline, but this is never as simple as it seems. Two companies to consider, ATI and Nvidia. Now, I was an ATI fan boy, then went to Nvidia for a while and now I actually own both of their high end cards. This is the BEST outline for video cards that I have ever seen, just numbers, nothing else.
http://users.erols.com/chare/video.htm
Nothing is as simple as it seems, the numbers don't tell you the whole story, but in the simplest terms, the higher the Bandwidth (BW), the better the card. This is not a coorelation = cause thing!!! This is a coorelation that happens to work out well with video cards. What this does do for us is immeadiately illuminate the value level cards and the performance cards.
Performance cards (look at the names here then go to that spreadsheet and see if you can see the pattern for yourself)
ATI
9600XT
9800, 9800Pro, 9800XT
X800, X800GT, X800Pro
Nvidia
GF6600GT
GF6800 (all varieties)
Note that not all of these cards are the tip top of the line from each company, they are simply the performance cards. It should be noted that AGP slots are being phased out and any new gaming or performance computer will be using PCI-E (PCI express). If you need more explanation it can be for another time.
Opticals
I didn't think that I actually was going to write a section like this, but hey I was amazed when I actually did the research.
Options:
CD-Rom --> $15
DVD-Rom --> $20
CD Burner --> $21
DVD Burner --> $35
I mean wow! You can get a DVD-Burner for $35 now... I remember buying my CD Burner for $200 way back when. I would seriously consider what you need before you buy. Not many people have a REAL use for a DVD burner and while it can't hurt to have it, it can be a complete waste of money. I generally use my network to transfer files or my 2gb USB drive and not CDs, but thats just me.
Cases and powersupplies
This section has too much variety to put into words. Quality in the powersupply does matter for high end systems, but I'll save this for another day if people need the help
Cliff Notes:
1) Building your own computer isn't hard and can be very rewarding/cheap
2) Lot of good motherboards to choose from
3) AMD64
4) DDR400 PC3200 (1gb)
5) Cheap, good hard drives all over the place
6) Lots of good video cards to choose from
7) Opticals have come way down in price
