This is what ninhowfritz designed for me:
With this I should be able to flip the switches and have everything power on. When I flip off the lower switch it will turn off the lcd and bulb, but the fan will keep running until the box cools down or until i flip the labeled dpst switch off above (black and red illustrated).
Now I know people will come in here and tell me oh just follow this diagram or do what i did, and i appreciate your inputs but I know nothing about wiring things so I can't just follow something I need to have my own issue addressed so that I know exactly what needs to be done.
So please take a look at this and tell me if it looks good:

Thanks.

