Once again many thanks to everyone in the forums. Pun,Sim,AV,Tescorp,Dajyn,Fulcrum, and so many more I could list all day. All your thoughts and suggestions have made this one a lot easier to figure out in advance. Though there are miles to go yet.
Basic setup:
2 Silenx fans - 18 dBA - 90cfm (read good and bad reviews on these)
Ushio S400DD bulb (blew the OSRAM HQI)
S51 Ballast
Precondenser from DIYbeamer
possible 5-1/4" Hot Mirror
330 rear Fresnel
Sharp WUXGA panel
G2A210 controller (finally in, should order soon)
550 front fresnel
18" beseler lens with Vu-Lyte focusing mech.
Here are the basic layout images with little detail of connections or materials. Most of the light area will be 1/8" aluminum, though I may try to use a material that resonates less. I am aiming to reduce noise and I find that the aluminum box can act as a sound chamber for fan vibration.
I found the heat sink in the first build to be effective, and the new design uses one as well.
The idea is box-in-a-box, with the table mainly acting as attractive cover. I have spent no time considering materials, and only a basic layout.
quick caps of the design thus far:



The table and a blocked out couch. The focal lengths work perfectly for our space!

Next post will have shots of the first step... Fan mounting

























